I have always been fascinated with learning about relationships and especially marriage. Even before I was married (over 23 years ago), I was reading up and asking questions. I have definitely learned a lot in my own marriage as well as from my studies and clients I have worked with. There are factors we all have in common. Hurtful events and built up resentment can be mended. Couples can grow in their relationship and reach a place of contentment and connection.  

We live in a broken world though, and there are times when a person would honestly be healthier and safer if they were single than with someone who is destructive. We need to keep this in mind when starting couple's counseling.